I Left My Perfect Marriage For The Perfect Woman

MarijaRadovic / iStock **This was originally published on Scary Mommy in August 2017 Much has changed, but the message remains.** It’s interesting how we can walk through life thinking we have it all figured out. Society has a way of telling us what we want, who we should be, who we should be with, and once we …

Loving You is Loving Me

I have a question. I know we talk about love like it's something we keep or lack, search for, yearn for and would do anything for...but do you really understand love? Is it in fact something you desire within yourself? Or is it something you've been programmed to think you need to seek in someone …

We’re Black, White & Gay: Are You Uncomfortable?

I am the most powerful demographic in the world, not the most privileged. Close though (cue the white male), but I am by far the most powerful. My white privilege and pussy power is a more dangerous combo than the #10 large value meal at the most popular fast food chain in the world. My …

Layers – They Matter

Hi. I love that you showed up here. Did you choose to be right here in this moment or do you feel you were led here? It doesn't matter, either way because you're here. This might sound weird but, you are an onion. Well maybe not yet, but definitely the beginning of one. Don't worry, …

Let Me Change Your Life: Kitchen Plastic Storage Box Review

Okay, I don't know about you, but ever since quarantine hit, I've been cooking a lot more. And if you know me, I DON'T cook! So this has been ROUGH to say the least! This also means I've had a ton of extra food in my fridge that has gone bad, and it's frustrating as …

Baby Warmie Offers the #1 Diaper Bag on the Market

I had my last baby eight years ago! Feels like a lifetime when I see how far the baby products have come since then. The diaper bag I had was a brown satchel that wasn't just small, it hardly had any storage space. It cost a fortune and almost went through more trauma than I …

Dear Kim, This is About Kanye

Hey Kim, You don't know me but I'm just a writer mom therapist woman from California who watches your show, who is also fascinated by the "come up" you had, mind boggled by y'all's ability to take opportunity by the muthafuckin' horns and also enamored by just how incredibly smart you are in making gobs …

‘Waking Up’ to Racism in My Interracial Relationship

Crazy story; Necessary story. In February, I met my now girlfriend. It’s been anything but easy for her, for me, for us. We met, we talked, we spent time together, we fell in love, hard, realizing every single thing that made us different, that should pull us apart, that shouldn’t make sense, somehow kept us …

Confessions of an Intoxicated Mom in Quarantine

First off, I'd like to say I'm only on my third glass of wine for the night. In normal life, that would be excessive, but in quarantine life, it sounds about right. Let me just say that I, in no way am condoning drinking as a coping mechanism to get through quarantine, because that's not …

LAUNCH Day! Metamorphosis: The Podcast

The Podcast is LIVE! Click the links below to access the Podcast or go to the App store on your iPhone, iPad or mobile device to download and stream. Apple Podcasts Spotify Podcasts This has been my baby for several months and I'll be honest, I'm terrified! To put something so raw out there, I …